A few years ago, someone I love got a divorce. The sad irony is that when this person got married in the first place, they were counseled to wait for many reasons. After the divorce, they said that they never should have married in the first place, and they cited the reasons given to them all those years ago before the wedding. It was awful and ugly and caused widespread pain and hurt. My understanding was this person was not happy and hadn’t been in a long time. I think we can all relate to that on some level. Which is why I appreciate this article very much.